Men and Motorcycles

I would like to say that I think men and motorcycles go very well together. They both improve each other greatly. I am not saying that I do not like men who don't have them, or that I don't like men who don't even like motorcycles. No worries. I still think you can be a man with or without one. However, there is something inside of me that just loves that world. The motorcycles, tattoos, metal music, competitive, head banging, skinny jeans world. I always have loved it, and I think I always will. I'm not trying to put men into categories, like, "I can't marry a man unless he is all of those things". No. Definitely not. But there's just something about it that intrigues me. I think it's rugged, manly...and beautiful. That's just the front, though.

Character goes a long way. I don't want a man with all of those things, but who, when he's alone with his buddies, is throwing the F-bomb every other word. I don't really even know if it's possible to find a man the way I envision him. Someone who is so "manly", and his character surpasses everything and everyone else. I'm not sure that really exists at all. Not to mention, shallowness. Good night! The shallowness, I've noticed, that comes with men like that is absurd. I'm not saying that ALL of them are shallow. But I've seen it several times; they want a woman who is perfect in every way. Quiet, skinny and a perfect face. If I could order a man from heaven, his character would be the first on my list. Then if there was room for more, I would add those other qualities (that I noted in the beginning) that I treasure so much. Above all, and maybe the reason I've never had a real relationship before, is that I require a lot. I require proof from him, and I give him chances to prove himself worthy. They very rarely get past the first stage. It would take a VERY special kind of guy to prove himself so well that he gets past the first stage with me.

Anyway. Those are my thoughts. Brought on by conversations with my girl friends this afternoon. We were discussing our "interests", and I thought I would shed some light on what all of our "interests" and concerns were.